О сексе во время беременности...
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aleatoriusАмериканцы мыслят себя как механизмы!
вот переведу выдержки:
1. После некоторого времени снижения интереса к сексу, часто сей интерес начинает возвращаться по мере того как тело адаптируется к новому гормональному балансу так и по мере того как обьем крови увеличивается, увеличивая огазмическую и грудную чувствительность.
2. Если тебе неприятны прикосновения - поиграй в игру "ублажение мужа": потрогай его, поцелуй его - эта сексуальная игра даст ему почувствовать себя желанным, чувственным и удовлетворённым. А в ответ он возможно будет менее озабоченным и более понимающим остаток твоей беременности.
Сие написано прохфессором социологии (это наука, гврят, такая) Вашингтонгского универа.
http://faculty.washington.edu/couples/columns/ambaby/03-01.htm
How Much Sex During Pregnancy?
By Pepper Schwartz, PhD
March 2001
Are you feeling frisky... or nauseated, exhausted, and huge?
Do you have the feeling that as your belly grows, your sex drive diminishes? Or is your desire for sex simply unpredictable? Sexual frequency will hit highs and lows throughout your nine months, until the end of your last trimester, when weight gain and other factors (such as baby's position against your internal organs) often make sex too uncomfortable.
You and your partner may be wondering how much sex you should be having at different stages of your pregnancy. But just how much sex is normal is an interesting and almost impossible question to answer.
What Studies Show
According to studies such as those done by sexuality researchers William Masters and Virginia Johnson, most pregnant women in their second trimester have sex about four times a month. Still, a significant number of women have intercourse just two or three times in the same period.
These figures are just an average--they don't take into account how long a couple has been together, whether the pregnancy was the first or a subsequent one, when small children would be in the house, and a number of other pertinent details.
What to Expect
Ultimately, you can expect to experience a dip in sexual desire when you first become pregnant, because of nausea, fatigue, and sheer body mass. Often, but not always, interest peaks later on when the body adjusts to hormones and blood volume increases, enhancing orgasms and breast sensitivity. A few expectant moms actually feel very turned on at this stage of pregnancy, but if it doesn't happen for you, there's no reason to worry.
Your husband may be missing the active sex life you once had, but once baby's born and you have some time to transition back to your old self, you'll likely resume your former lovemaking patterns.
What You Can Do
In the meantime, experimenting with other forms of intimacy will reassure your husband of your love and attraction for him. For example, if you don't feel like being touched, make a game of pleasing your husband: Touch him, kiss him--the sexual play will make him feel wanted, sensuous, and satisfied. And in turn, he will probably feel less anxious and more understanding for the rest of your pregnancy.
Stop thinking about how often sex should happen or what's normal, and start enjoying the new affection and intimacy the two of you can share at this exciting stage of your lives.
вот переведу выдержки:
1. После некоторого времени снижения интереса к сексу, часто сей интерес начинает возвращаться по мере того как тело адаптируется к новому гормональному балансу так и по мере того как обьем крови увеличивается, увеличивая огазмическую и грудную чувствительность.
2. Если тебе неприятны прикосновения - поиграй в игру "ублажение мужа": потрогай его, поцелуй его - эта сексуальная игра даст ему почувствовать себя желанным, чувственным и удовлетворённым. А в ответ он возможно будет менее озабоченным и более понимающим остаток твоей беременности.
Сие написано прохфессором социологии (это наука, гврят, такая) Вашингтонгского универа.
http://faculty.washington.edu/couples/columns/ambaby/03-01.htm
How Much Sex During Pregnancy?
By Pepper Schwartz, PhD
March 2001
Are you feeling frisky... or nauseated, exhausted, and huge?
Do you have the feeling that as your belly grows, your sex drive diminishes? Or is your desire for sex simply unpredictable? Sexual frequency will hit highs and lows throughout your nine months, until the end of your last trimester, when weight gain and other factors (such as baby's position against your internal organs) often make sex too uncomfortable.
You and your partner may be wondering how much sex you should be having at different stages of your pregnancy. But just how much sex is normal is an interesting and almost impossible question to answer.
What Studies Show
According to studies such as those done by sexuality researchers William Masters and Virginia Johnson, most pregnant women in their second trimester have sex about four times a month. Still, a significant number of women have intercourse just two or three times in the same period.
These figures are just an average--they don't take into account how long a couple has been together, whether the pregnancy was the first or a subsequent one, when small children would be in the house, and a number of other pertinent details.
What to Expect
Ultimately, you can expect to experience a dip in sexual desire when you first become pregnant, because of nausea, fatigue, and sheer body mass. Often, but not always, interest peaks later on when the body adjusts to hormones and blood volume increases, enhancing orgasms and breast sensitivity. A few expectant moms actually feel very turned on at this stage of pregnancy, but if it doesn't happen for you, there's no reason to worry.
Your husband may be missing the active sex life you once had, but once baby's born and you have some time to transition back to your old self, you'll likely resume your former lovemaking patterns.
What You Can Do
In the meantime, experimenting with other forms of intimacy will reassure your husband of your love and attraction for him. For example, if you don't feel like being touched, make a game of pleasing your husband: Touch him, kiss him--the sexual play will make him feel wanted, sensuous, and satisfied. And in turn, he will probably feel less anxious and more understanding for the rest of your pregnancy.
Stop thinking about how often sex should happen or what's normal, and start enjoying the new affection and intimacy the two of you can share at this exciting stage of your lives.
